1. What exactly is a Humanist wedding? It’s a wedding without the “thou shalts” and religious bits. Instead, it’s all about you—your love story, your values, and celebrating in a way that feels right to you. No one telling you what you must include, just pure, personalized magic. 2. Are Humanist weddings legally recognized? Depends on where you are! If you’re in Scotland, Ireland, or Jersey—yep, totally legal. In other places, you might need to do the legal bit separately (think of it as signing a contract before the actual party). I can guide you through. 3. Who officiates a Humanist wedding? A Humanist celebrant-aka a lovely person who helps you craft a wedding that feels personal and meaningful rather than just going through the motions. No “do you take this woman, blah blah blah” unless you want that, which is cool too! 4. Can we get married anywhere? Pretty much! Fancy a clifftop wedding? A beach at sunset in Greece? A stunning Manor House in the Cotswolds? Your nan’s back garden? Go for it! Humanist weddings are super flexible—no need to be stuck in a traditional venue if that’s not your vibe. 5. What actually happens in a Humanist wedding? Whatever you want (within reason—maybe don’t arrive by parachute unless you’ve practiced). Usually, there’s "the story of you", personal vows, music, readings, and maybe some quirky rituals (handfasting, sand ceremonies, tequila shots—you do you). I can suggest lots of options that will make it unique. 6. Can we include religious elements? Not usually, since it’s a non-religious ceremony. But if there’s a tradition that’s important to you culturally or personally, we can have a chat about how to make it work in a meaningful way. Again, this is your ceremony so you get to choose. 7. Can we write our own vows? 100%! In fact, it’s encouraged. This is your chance to make heartfelt promises (or sneak in a joke about always letting them have the last slice of pizza). 8. Is a Humanist wedding for everyone? Absolutely! Whether you’re LGBTQ+, atheists, mixed-faith, or just want a wedding that doesn’t feel like a script from the 1800s, this is for you. 9. How long does a Humanist ceremony last? Usually around 20-40 minutes, depending on how much you want to say and how many tears/laughs/dog interruptions happen along the way. 10. What do you provide?
A planning meeting - or two or three! It's all about what you need!
Your unique script
A rehearsal call
Delivery of the ceremony
A presentation script
I give an ‘all in’ quote, so this will vary based on location, distance, and whether any accommodation is required- just get in touch and I’ll figure it all out. I don’t charge anything extra for the first 50 miles of travel.